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This is a catalogue, not a funnel. Every module below says what it does, what it is for, and which plan includes it. 64 clause records are browseable in the app at every tier —fifteen platform clauses can be suggested from your answers.
Nothing here stands alone. The editorial map below shows how the catalogue connects, suite by suite, left to right. It is not a claim about live data flow.
Seven tap-only questions, then the right number.Free on every plan, including signed out
Public safety deployment is held. This catalogue description does not open the safety service.
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What it does. Intake, triage and handoff. Answer seven questions — nothing typed, nothing stored — and get an urgency band, a ranked set of categories, an ordered set of actions and a printable handoff sheet.
The hardest part of getting help is not the call. It is knowing which of seventy organisations is yours, at eleven at night, when you can barely describe what is happening.
Free at every tier and signed out. Stores nothing. Never behind a payment.
Draws on ← nothing — it stands alone
Feeds → The Register
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Which kind of practitioner, and what to ask them.Free on every plan, including signed out
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What it does. Matches your situation to a type of practitioner, names the accrediting body to check them against, gives you the questions worth asking on the first call, and generates a brief you can send to three of them.
Couples end up with the wrong sort of practitioner because nobody told them the sorts were different. There is no practitioner list here, deliberately — you should be wary of any product that gives you one without saying how it was paid for.
Free at every tier. No practitioner list, no paid placement.
Draws on ← Get help now
Feeds → nothing reads from it directly
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Forty-eight statements. Twelve minutes. Six dimensions.Included in Survey and above
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What it does. The core questionnaire. Original items across attachment anxiety, distance instinct, spoken feeling, conflict heat, centre of gravity and vigilance.
Answer for your ordinary self, not your best self. First reactions are usually the truest ones.
Draws on ← Mutual confidentiality agreement
Feeds → Your Survey · Movement
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
One of twenty archetypes, with the parts nobody enjoys.Included in Survey and above
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What it does. Your six scores, your archetype, what it costs you as well as what it gives you, and a portable profile code you can carry into any other module.
A profile that only flatters you is a horoscope.
Draws on ← Sounding
Feeds → Blind Spot · Ground Conditions · The Load · The Structural Report · Movement · Weather Report · Repairs · Second Opinion
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Signed before anything is disclosed. Both ways.Included in Survey and above
Built and held. The mutual undertaking. Built 4 September 2026 and held on the founder's instruction pending counsel: the module was commissioned as a "mutual NDA", was built instead as an undertaking with NO legal force plus unwaivable carve-outs, and whether that is the right instrument at all is register Q21/Q22. Nobody may open it until that is answered.
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What it does. A mutual NDA covering everything either of you discloses through the platform — results, answers, agreements and amendments.
Mutual is the whole point. A one-way confidentiality agreement before a one-way disclosure is leverage, not protection.
Draws on ← nothing — it stands alone
Feeds → Sounding · Non-Negotiables
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Scores your vows for whether they can actually be kept.Included in Foundations and above
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What it does. Write a vow and it is checked against vagueness and concreteness markers, then scored keepable, workable or too vague.
"I will try to be more present" scores 27. "I will put my phone in the drawer from 7 to 9 every weeknight" scores 85. Only one of those can be honoured or broken.
Draws on ← nothing — it stands alone
Feeds → Your Terms
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Eight things that reorganise a life.Included in Structure and above
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What it does. Children, where we live, whose career leads, ageing parents, money long-term, how much we work, illness and incapacity, and the end of life — each with a stated position and a comparison.
Most couples have never stated a position on most of them, and find the disagreement years after building around an assumption. "I don't know yet" is recorded as a real answer.
Draws on ← Your Terms
Feeds → The Walkthrough
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Three tiers, agreed while calm.Included in Foundations and above
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What it does. What counts as a slip, a real breach and a fundamental breach; who raises it, how fast, and what repair looks like. Plus a log that will not close without a recorded repair.
An agreement without a breach procedure is a wish list.
Safeguarding: contraindicated where there is fear or coercive control; the platform removes it from that route.
Draws on ← Your Terms · Repairs
Feeds → Reset
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Seven steps, and neither sees the other's first answer.Included in Foundations and above
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What it does. State it separately, read both, agree the actual question, name the need under the position, generate options, test them, write down what you agreed.
Positions conflict far more often than needs do, which is why step four is where most deadlocks quietly dissolve.
Safeguarding: mediation is contraindicated where one person is afraid of the other; the platform says so and routes to specialist services instead.
Draws on ← Your Terms · The Holding
Feeds → nothing reads from it directly
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
What each document does, and what it cannot.Included in Structure and above
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What it does. Cohabitation agreements, pre- and post-nups, declarations of trust, wills, LPAs and guardianship — with what to have ready, and a brief to hand a solicitor.
There is no such thing as common law marriage in England and Wales. Most couples find this out at the worst possible moment.
Draws on ← Your Terms · The Vault
Feeds → The Vault · Parting Terms
These are editorial connections, not enforced prerequisites or a claim about live data flow.
Five columns, one per suite, left to right in the order you meet them. Every line is an editorial connection, not an enforced prerequisite. Point at any node to hold it.
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The tiers stack. Survey is 7 of 32, Foundations is 23 of 32, Structure is 32 of 32 — a higher plan contains everything beneath it. Nothing here argues that one plan is better than another.